We would talk and innocently flirt and I noticed that I started to become more open with him. In this instance, I decided to let go of a friend because I developed feelings for him while knowing he was in a relationship. I've always known what this was and have seen it played out many times and thought how silly it was for the girl to not realize what was happening happened to me.ĭuring the past year I have really made tremendous strides when it came to dealing with my unhealthy relationships with men. Many of us have been there before and some without realizing it. The man usually has feelings for this girl but isn't ready to make an actual commitment due to one of the previously mentioned reasons. A back pocket girl is the girl that a man keeps on the side or just "around" for when he's ready to either be in a relationship and settle down, or when he's ready to leave his current relationship all together. The back pocket relationship doesn't have to be sexual, it's really more of an emotional connection the guy is having with a girl he knows that he could see himself with in the long run. I love all these new nicknames for situations that have existed forever, so fun! Anyways, a back-pocket girlfriend is not to be confused with a "side chick".
Urban Dictionary defines as a back pocket girl as: " A girl that a guy keeps on the side (or in his ‘back pocket’) for when things in his current relationship go badly or end all together."
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